Monday, July 17, 2017

Remembering Heroes



“There is a saying in Tibetan, 'Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength.' No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope, that's our real disaster.”  Dalai Lama

Most of America can remember where they were on 9/11 when they first heard about the twin towers. Most of Baton Rouge (and surrounding communities) can remember where they were when they first heard about the police ambush that took place 1 year ago today. I was in California. At the time, I was separated from the tragedy by 2500 miles so, while sad, I felt distanced from it all. It wasn't until I got back to LA that I realized I had a connection to one of the officers who was killed- Brad Garafola. I had taught his son. His daughter goes to school with P. His inlaws go to church with us. As I started putting the pieces together, I began to mourn the loss of these heroes. The men who went to work to protect the community, while providing for their families.
I remember the heightened tension throughout the area. I didn't want to drive down Airline Hwy, a common thoroughfare through town, unless absolutely necessary because that's where the ambush took place. As the heat began to rise, protests took place. More police ambush throughout the country took place. And more Christians began to pray for our nation, our police officers.
I can't imagine what these police families have been through this past year. I have become friends with Brad's mother in law and once in awhile she'll open up to me. She'll confide in me how she's feeling about losing her beloved son in law, how it's strained her relationship with her daughter. I can't imagine the "firsts" these families went through for the past 365 days. The "what-ifs". So much was lost last Summer- from the ambush to the flood, it was a difficult time for the BR area.
Some good has come from this tragedy. One police was severely wounded- 3 shots to his head, abdomen and shoulder. He has been fighting through a long journey of recovering for the past year. His parents were told he wouldn't live past 5 days, 21 days at most (by a miracle). A couple months ago he said his first word ("Hello") and he used his legs for the first time not long afterwards. Through it all, his dad has become a prayer warrior, has re-established his walk with the Lord. He is also using social media to witness to tens of thousands who follow his son's progress.
So, a year after the ambush, it's important to not lose hope. It's important to pray for our police heroes. It's important to honor those who have fallen in the line of duty. It's important to never forget, yet remain strong.
Thank you to those who put their lives on the line every day, to protect communities around the world.

Sunday, July 16, 2017

Summer Fun

I haven't blogged in awhile not because of lack of news. Just the opposite actually. We have been so busy that I literally fall into bed at night, welcoming the quiet. In fact, if memory serves me correctly, Father's Day weekend is the only weekend that we have been home....without entertaining. This past weekend seemed to be our biggest yet- a 8yr old birthday party and a church ministry fish fry. It's been a busy time but it's not over yet.
This Summer has been one for the books! Usually I spend Summer break trying to figure out fun things to do before or after we get back from California, that being our big Summer activity. We spend a lot of time at Bass Pro because of lack of things to do. But this year the fun seems to find us. (We haven't been to Bass Pro once!) There have only been a handful of days where we have been "bored". And by bored, I mean we stay home and clean the house and do laundry to get caught up.
This Summer we have gone to the trampoline park, to the movies, on a camping trip, on picnics, to MS, on the boat, to VBS, to CFA Cow Appreciation Day, to a library magic show, hosted a birthday party and a fish fry, did a day trip to the Coast where we went to the Marine Institute, had friends over to swim several times a week....and the list goes on. Sadly, there is still a list of things I'd like to do but doubt will happen due to lack of time.
Needless to say, I have been having so much fun that I haven't been able to get any of the projects done that I had wanted to do. I wish I could say that I still have plenty of time but that wouldn't be true. This week we'll be going to MS for my FIL's retirement party and next week we'll be going to visit friends with maybe a trip to TX thrown in. Then it's back to the real world. The world where I don't get to sleep in and enjoy a relaxing cup of coffee in the morning. The world where I don't get to spend the day being a kid with my boys. The world where the housework is prioritized because there aren't enough hours in the day. The world where I receive a paycheck again. As much as it saddens me to have the Summer's end in sight, I am excited for the new school year. Until then, let the fun continue!!!